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On August 19, 2015, hackers leaked information about users of the popular cheating site Ashley Madison.



Many users were under the mistaken belief that their information was protected on Ashley Madison.  Others believed that if they paid a fee to the Ashley Madison website, they could have their personal data removed from Ashley Madison.  While the logistics and details of the hack are still unofficial, hackers seemed to have shown the world that such a belief was not true.  More troubling, Ashley Madison allegedly made a significant profit from potential cheaters who believed that their information would be scrubbed from the site if they paid the ransom money fee. Some reported that this was probably a bad idea.

Once the site was hacked, hackers leaked the user information on the internet and it apparently was available for download using Tor on the darkweb.  Once hackers dumped the information online, it was readily available.  The data breach was accompanied by a message from the hackers which seemed to send a larger message to the site.  The data dump contained the information of millions of users.  Ashley Madison’s Chief technology officer Raja Bhatia has stated in an interview that the dumped information is fake.  This has been the case in the past.  The latest information comes from a group which calls itself the “impact team”.  The Impact Team has indicated that they are the Ashley Madison hackers. Some sources report that Ashley Madison has confirmed the data dump.

 

Ashley Madison is a dating site that offers married individuals an opportunity to find people to hook up with online.  It is run by Avid Life Media or ALM. Ashley Madison reportedly makes over 40 million dollars a month.

Many websites quickly scrambled to cover the story.  The Verge purports to help you find every type of data allegedly exposed in the Ashley Madison hack. ABC News also attempted to help people understand what was purportedly leaked.

Commentators predict that if the Ashley Madison user data is leaked, there will be many divorces. “It would definitely be a grounds for divorce if you found out your spouse’s information was leaked due to the use of Ashley Madison” stated Jamel Oeser-Sweat, Esq., a Divorce Lawyer based in New York City.

Sources:

Wired: Hackers Finally Post Stolen Ashley Madison Data

ARS TECHNICA: Data from hack of Ashley Madison cheater site dumped online


Top 10 Dating Apps Cheaters Use

 

If you are looking to find out if someone is cheating, you know difficult it can sometimes be.  However, lucky for you, if the person is cheating online, there are many dating sites which you can use as starting points.  Conversely, if you are looking to find someone new, these dating apps can help you find a new significant other.   Each one of the dating apps listed below has its own world with its own rules.

Social Networking sites in general are places where people can meet and are often used as dating site. Remember, dating sites are just social networking sites to which people go for dates.

Cheaters on Tinder

#1

Tinder

Arguably, Tinder is one of the hottest hookup apps right now.  Tinder allows people to skip the awkward part of the courting process and let the other person know that they are interested.  This often leads to quicker chats which move into other things (ahem…hook-ups).  If your partner has Tinder on his/her phone, chances are, he/she is cheating or at least, is thinking about cheating in the future.

HOW IT WORKS:

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

One female surveyed said that Tinder was so “full of guys trying to get laid” that she started looking at the profiles of other females and ended up going on her first date with a girl.   For some looking for same sex relationships for the first time, Tinder is like marijuana, it can be a gateway drug.  If you find your partner on Tinder, he or she might not just be speaking to people of the opposite sex.  TINDER is a hookup app.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

Tinder is no social networking site like some of the others on this list, which are often used for non-sexual purposes.  People go on Tinder to get some.  It is one of the most well known free online hook up apps.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

CLICK HERE TO GET TINDER

or

SEE TINDER AT http://www.gotinder.com/

Looking for free dating apps for android: TINDER is one to look for!  Get this dating app free!

Plenty of Fish (POF)

Cheaters on Grindr

#2

Grindr 

HOW IT WORKS:

Grindr is a friendly homosexual man’s dream app.  Grindr is a Gay, Bi & curious guy finder for people looking for a hook-up.  

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

Gay and Bi-Sexual Men who are looking for someone to hook-up with love Grindr.  One guy however, was not so keep on Grindr when it allegedly hooked him up with a 13 year old.  There are many accusations that Grindr users are often exposed to STDs.  One man used Grindr to allegedly spread HIV.  If you find out that your partner is on GRINDR (or any other dating site app, you may want to get yourself tested immediately).  If you are using Grindr (or any other of these apps..) BE CAREFUL!

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

You care because it is a good place to find people to cheat with.  It is a great place for homosexual men to find a man to cheat with. One of the best ways to find a cheater is on Grindr if the cheater is online and homosexual.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

CLICK HERE to get Grindr or

see   www.grindr.com/


 

 

#3

Yelp

HOW IT WORKS:

Yelp is not a dating site.  It a restaurant/business review site.  However, any social networking site can be used to connect to people and arrange dates and hook ups.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

People are saying Yelp is not a dating site.  Then they are winking.  Yelp is not just a restaurant review site, it has a social component called Yelp Elite which has events and allows people to attend and meet new people while visiting restaurants and businesses.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

Yelp is just another social networking site that people can use to meet one another.  If you are looking to meet new people, Yelp is a great place to find them.  You can see what types of places they go to socialize and eat.  You can also see where they have been recently.  These factors make Yelp a fantastic App and website for cheaters.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

Click here to go to Yelp or

go to www.yelp.com

 

 

#4

 

Ashley Madison

 

HOW IT WORKS: 

Their tagline is “Life is short, have an affair” and they mean it.  This site is a place for people who are married to find someone to get with.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

Born Again Christians and others are getting their groove on using Ashley Madison, according to Huffington Post.  They say that this infidelity site is scoring big in the United States.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

If you are looking for someone who is cheating, the best starting point is a website for people who are married that want to cheat on their spouses.  If a wife wants to cheat on her husband or a husband wants to cheat on his wife and they are looking for someone who may be ok with dating a cheater, Ashley Madison is the best place on the internet.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

https://www.ashleymadison.com/

 

#5

 

OkCupid

 

HOW IT WORKS:

OKCUPID is a free dating sites on the internet.  It is a free dating site for dating.  You can find someone to date in any city, state or country.  This is a great place to find someone for international dating as well.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

Some think that OKCUPID is one of the best free dating sites on the internet.  Others think it is one of the best free dating apps.  Whether you use the dating site online or the dating app, free is a great price to pay for the dating services provided by OKCUPID.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

Cheaters may start out using dating apps which have a lower barrier to entry and OKCUPID is a free dating site.  It also has a free dating app.  This means that not only can someone who is cheating use the site, you can find a cheater online using the dating app for free.  This can be really useful.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

http://www.okcupid.com

 

#6

 

Blendr

 

HOW IT WORKS:

The creator of GRINDR decided to create a dating site/dating app for women.  “Grindr is all about one interest, and that’s being gay,” according to a recent HuffPost article.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

GRINDR is BLENDR but for homosexuals.  It is a homosexual dating app.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

If you are looking for a cheating homosexual man or a man who is cheating with another man, GRINDR may be a good starting place.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

http://www.grindr.com

#7

JPix

HOW IT WORKS:

JPIX is a dating app for Jewish People.  It is JDATE.COM’s dating app.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

They are saying if you are Jewish and single and looking to date someone who is Jewish, JDATE.com is always a good starting place.  That being the case, JPIX promises to be a great dating app for jewish people.  What other dating app virtually guarantees you will find a nice Jewish boy or girl to take home to mom?

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

JPIX is a Jewish dating app available for both android and apple.  If you are concerned that your spouse is looking to cheat with a Jewish guy or a Jewish girl, you will possibly have some luck finding the cheater on JPIX or on JDATE.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

http://www.jdate.com

or JPIX in the android Google Play Store or in your APPLE app store.

 

#8

 

3nder

 

HOW IT WORKS:

Looking for a threesome?  3nder is where you may be successful.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

According to Huffington Post, 3nder is an app that makes threesomes easy.  That is a serious claim.  Many a drunken man has claimed that he has the key to accomplishing this dating feat.  This app is the closest that most will come.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

If your significant other is into sharing, this may be a good starting point to find his or her dating profile.  3nder claims to have created over 165,000 threesome matches to date.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

http://3nderapp.com/



The APPLE STORE will get you this apple dating app for threesomes.  The android version of this dating app for threesomes is coming in 2015.

 

 

#9

 

Dattch

 

HOW IT WORKS:

Dattch is a dating app for lesbian, bi & queer women.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

Various outlets report that DATTCH is a good dating app for finding lesbian women as well as bi and queer women.  This is a dating app for women seeking women.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

If you believe that the woman you are seeking is looking another woman, DATTCH may be a good place to start looking to find her dating profile.  If you find her dating profile online, maybe you should create a dating profile online that she can find.

WHERE DO I GET IT?

 http://dattch.com/

 

#10

 

POF

HOW IT WORKS:

POF is arguably the biggest and best free dating site app on the internet.  The site has a dating app.  The dating app allows you to search for dates by city and state.  You can also search for dating profiles for people in other countries.

WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING?

POF has millions of profiles.  It is a great free dating app.  It is also a free dating site.  It is good for international dating as well.  The dating site is also known as plenty of fish.

WHY YOU SHOULD CARE:

If you believe that the woman you are seeking is looking another woman, DATTCH may be a good place to start looking to find her dating profile.  If you find her dating profile online, maybe you should create a dating profile online that she can find.  If you are looking to find out if someone has a dating profile, POF is a great place to start.  You can search the dating profiles by location and age.  You can find a dating profile if there is one there.  If you are fishing to Catch A Cheater, Plenty of Fish has lots of Fish!

WHERE DO I GET IT?

http://www.pof.com

 

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3 Ways To Find Information About Someone

Before Going Out On A Date With Them

Google Stalking 101

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1) Use Facebook to find out about the person you are about to date!

Facebook is a great place to start gathering information about a potential blind date!  Facebook can show you where your potential date/future date went to school, give you pictures of the person, and also, will allow you to potentially see what your future date may post online.  The best part of Facebook is that you can use it to see and assess whether your date has any mutual friends.  You may be able to get insight and information from the mutual friends.

2) Google the person you are about to see – Don’t forget image search!!!

There are many ways to Google stalk your potential date.  Whatever you do, don’t mention these activities to your potential date.  The fact that you are googlestalking him or her may creep your date out.  However, if you are going to engage in googlestalking, here are some tips:

  • Search name and screen names (including nicknames)
  • Use Image Search and follow trails you may find on sites and pages containing images
  • Use phone numbers and email addresses as search terms as well!

3) Use Instagram to get information about the person you are about to go on a date with!

Instagram is a great way to see how your potential date interacts with others and what things he or she may be interested in!  Instagram can bring information you find out while doing research on a potential blind date to life!  Whether you met the person you are about to go meet on a dating site, or someone fixed you up on a blind date, Instagram pages can help you to see the types of people your potential date tends to spend time with.  Memes posted to Instagram or Facebook can also give you insight into the sense of humor, politics, and/or interests of your potential date!




10 WAYS TO BEAT THE STRESS OF A BREAKUP

 

Handling a breakup can be extremely stressful. How you manage the stressof a breakup can affect other parts of your life.  Stress from a breakup can affect your interpersonal relationships with family and friends.

 

1) Unplug: Stay offline

Being online has been shown to increase the likelihood of depression!  If you have just ended a relationship, being online is often a horrible place to be.  The internet is full of horrible temptations.  Between Spam bots on dating sites and the temptation of checking out your ex lover’s profiles, the internet can be a horrible distraction.  The best way to beat the stress of a breakup is to get offline and stay offline for a while.  Your friends and family will understand.  In fact, though your friends may not tell you so, they hate people who go on Facebook and Instagram to have a virtual pity party.  Do yourself and the people around you a favor – stay offline until you get your bearings.

2) Go on a vacation or to a new place

Sometimes, just a change in scenery after a break up can go a long way!

3) Spend time with friends

Spending time with friends after a breakup is a great way to relieve stress and to get your mind off your ex.  Friends can be a great source of support.




4) Get out of the house

Don’t sit at home alone after a break up.  Make sure that you get out of the house and start getting involved in activities that will help you to heal.

5) Get some Sun

The sun is an amazing remedy for all sorts of conditions.  Getting sunlight into your life after a traumatic emotional experience is very helpful.

6) Try a new hobby

Post-Relationship is a great time to find a new hobby or start a hobby or activity that you have been meaning to start but never got around to!  Finding a new hobby is a great way to turn an otherwise negative experience into a positive one!

7) Meet new Friends

New friends can be a great way to get past your ex.  This is especially true in situations in which you and your ex shared the same social circles and going out with old friends is an emotional trigger.  Find activities in your area that can lead new friendships.  This includes social events and volunteer events.

8) Go on a Date

Some people say the best way to get back on the horse, is to, get back on the horse.  One of the best ways for some people to get over someone, is with someone else.  Eventually you have to move on.  Why not start now?!

9) Keep busy

There is no need to sit around a pout after a break up.  Get out there and do things.  Staying active is a great way to keep your mind off a relationship that has recently ended.

10) Get rid of all reminders of the relationship

Remember Angela Basset burning the car in “Waiting to Exhale” during her break up?  There is something cathartic about letting go of the old baggage that comes from a broken relationship.

 

 

WIFE CAUGHT CHEATING BY HUSBAND –
AFFAIR ESCAPES THROUGH WINDOW


FIRE DEPARTMENT RESCUES MAN WHO JUMPS OUT WINDOW WHEN WOMAN’S HUSBAND CATCHES THEM CHEATING!

In one of the craziest cheater videos yet, a movie scene unfolds when a wife’s affair goes terribly wrong.  While this wife was having an affair with another man, her husband returned and the man did not have time to get dressed before attempting to escape.  Pinned by the husband as the wife held him back, the man tied several sheets together and proceeded to jump out of a window.  A crowd had formed outside of the building as the husband yelled at the wife.  Firefighters were called and placed a rubber device for the man to jump into on the ground.  The man, in just his boxers, climbs out the window while the wife argues with her husband on the balcony.  He climbs using the sheets to the window ledge on the floor below and in desperation, the half naked man proceeds to jump to the ground to avoid the angry husband.  The crowd cheers as the man jumps to safety, but the man the wife was cheating with seems angry.  He then escapes.

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SHOCKING VIDEO OF CHEATING HUSBAND

BEING ATTACKED BY WIFE!

This poor lady was attacked by her inmate husband in a Venezuelan jail as inmate look on.  In this shocking video, we see a wife who visits her husband in jail.  Unbeknownst to the wife, the husband is aware that she is cheating.  The husband, who knows his relationship is over, gets revenge – he proceeds to grab her and shave her head.  You can see the man cutting the woman’s hair as some sort of sick punishment for her cheating ways.  She cries and fights, but her attacker is relentless and the other prisoners basically cheer and cry out in support.  Eventually, the defeated victim seems to submit and gets her hair cut.  She finally runs away, but not before losing her hair.

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MAN GIVES A WOMAN $300k ON A DATING SITE

BEFORE FINDING OUT PROFILE IS

FAKE!!


PERSON USING FAKE ONLINE DATING SITE PROFILE

STEALS $300,000 FROM MAN

A really really trusting man was catfished by a person online who pretended to be a pretty young woman and befriended him.  The person used a picture of a model in an online dating profile and the two exchanged emails for quite some time.  The older gentleman truly believed that the person in what was later determined to be a fake dating site profile, loved him.  He was so in love with the person using the fake profile that he sent the model he believed that he was talking to over $300,000.  Yes, he sent a random person he met on a dating site several hundred thousand dollars before his daughter discovered what was happening.  The man, who is pretty damn old and was sadly looking for love after his wife died, thought he had finally found happiness – in the world of online dating.  Instead, he found his bank account getting smaller and smaller as he was tricked into sending his online love interests money.  The man even traveled to London over 14 times, thinking he would meet the woman who he was talking to on the dating site.  Never happened.  Thanks to the Catfish, the man even lost his home to foreclosure.

 

LESSON:  DON’T GIVE MONEY TO PEOPLE YOU MEET ON THE INTERNET.  EVEN MORE IMPORTANTLY, DON’T GIVE MONEY TO PEOPLE FROM DATING SITES THAT YOU HAVE NEVER MET BEFORE.

 

WOMAN MEETS MAN ON DATING SITE, GETS ASSAULTED!

 

BE CAREFUL WHO YOU MEET ONLINE!!

 

Online dating can be pretty scary at times.  One woman alleges that she was stabbed and beat by a man that she met on MATCH.COM and she is now suing the website.  The Vegas woman alleges that she met a man on the dating site and he assaulted her to the point that she had to be hospitalized.  It is important that people exercise caution when meeting people online.  Dating sites can sometimes attract crazy people and you can never be too safe.  Make sure you always take steps to ensure that you are safe when meeting someone online, including meeting in public places and letting people know where you are and who you are with.

WIFE BREAKS CAR WINDOWS WITH A HAMMER AS HUSBAND RECORDS & GLASS FLIES EVERYWHERE!!

 

CRAZY WIFE DESTROYS CAR IN FRONT OF

HUSBAND WHO RECORDS INCIDENT!!

A man recorded his wife as she takes a hammer and proceeds to destroy his car during what seems to be a domestic dispute.  This is one way of handling a break up or divorce, but probably not the right way.  The woman proceeds to hit the convertible with the hammer as her husband watches, records, and narrates.  During the incident, the wife breaks windows, hits the hood of the car with the hammer, swings the hammer at the rear view mirror and just shows that even quiet people can be pretty crazy.  This fight could have been over anything..maybe the husband cheated.  Who knows.  Either way, she destroyed that car.

 

 

 

ONE WAY TO GET REVENGE ON A CHEATING WIFE!

WHAT ONE GUY DID AFTER FINDING HIS WIFE ON A DATING SITE!

 

When one guy finds his wife on a dating site, he decides to take matters into his own hands and get revenge.  A man got an email and found out his wife was on a dating site.  After viewing her profile and determining that she was cheating and out looking to cheat with other men, he came up with a plan to punish her cheating.  The husband got the keys to his cheating wife’s car, a convertible, and proceeded to open the top.  Then the cuckold took a dump truck full of manure and dumped it into the car.  The cheating wife was probably shocked to find her beloved convertible full of the manure that her dating site profile contained when she wrote that she was single!

 

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CHEATER BEAT BY GIRLFRIEND ON A TRAIN!


 BEATING FOR CHEATING!!!

Check out this video from WORLDSTARHIPHOP.COM in which a woman is beating her cheating boyfriend on a train.  The irrate woman is calling her cheating boyfriend names and proceeds to beat him, and kick him in the head several times.  The person filming the beating the cheater is getting seems concerned that her food is getting cold, but has to film the crazy fight between the woman and her cheating boyfriend.  For over 5 minutes, the girl smacks, kicks, and spits at the man.  She spit in his face.  How disrespectful.  Poor Cheater.  Eventually the police come and save the cheater, arresting the woman for beating him up.  She is even cuffed and put on the platform!  Then she is arrested.

Moral of the Story:

Think twice before engaging in self help against your cheating significant other.  Otherwise, you might end up a character on a website as people watch you get arrested.  Worse part is, the guy can now go right back to the girl he was cheating with.

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Top Ten Ways To Keep Your Affair a Secret

 

It does not matter how it happened.  Explain it how you wish, either way, sometimes, two people find themselves in a clandestine relationship and need to keep it secret.  Whether you are hiding an affair from your husband, hiding an affair from your wife, cheating on your girlfriend or cheating on your boyfriend, here are our top tips for keeping your relationship a secret!

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #1: Don’t add affair as a friend on social media

One of the most important rules of being clandestine is, well, be clandestine!  Resist the urge to add your secret affair on social media sites such as Facebook and Instagram.  When suspicious lovers and partners what to poke around, social media friends and follower’s lists are often the first stop in their investigative process.  Also, it is very difficult to control who is taking pictures of whom.  With today’s tagging and face recognition technology, you can be busted without even realizing you were sloppy.  If you want to keep your affair a secret, don’t be friends on the internet.  It may even throw off a suspicious partner.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #2: Clear Your Browser Cache

Often, cheaters are caught because they are sloppy.  If you are trying to hide your online activity, make sure that you clear your internet browser cache and cookies.  If you are searching for gifts for your significant other, do so in your browsers secret, private, or incognito mode.  Otherwise, the next time someone opens up your browser, your internet ads will be prominently displaying those flowers that you ordered.  Sometimes, they even personalize the ads and will suggest that you get “Jill” another wonderful bouquet of flowers.  Avoid the fight and clean up after yourself.

How: In your browser settings, find the incognito or privacy window and launch it.  Keep your activities there.  Also, after each and every session on the computer, clear the browsers history and cookies.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #3: Clear Your Cell Phone History

 

Another mistake that people who are having an affair make is that they often do not clear their cell phone logs and call histories.    If you are having a phone intensive relationship, remember that the number you call will appear on your cell phone bill.  You may want to get a “burner” phone, which is a nickname for a prepaid phone that is not connected to you and/or your credit card.  You should make it a practice to purge your call log several times a day.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #4: Delete Your Emails

Another way that people get tripped up when trying to hide an affair is by leaving an email trail.  If you are communicating by email, you need to make sure you delete the messages in your inbox.  Also remember, that popular email providers like GMAIL also keep a record of your outbox, so it is a good idea to delete the messages in your outgoing mailbox as well.  Some email providers require you to empty your trash bin in order to get rid of the emails you delete, so don’t overlook the trash bin as you might have to take that extra step to ensure that what you have written and/or received is completely gone.

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How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #5: Don’t Send messages at all!!!!!

If you have to write to each other, and you have to write long letters, which of course, you should never do, consider not sending the emails at all.  Create an email account to which only you and your lover have the password and login information.  Then write away, except, when you are finished with your letter, don’t hit send.  Never hit send.  Instead, save the email as a draft.  Then it will go into the draft folder.  You can update each other that an email exists via text message.  Once each party reads the letter, that party should delete the draft.  Of course, this is based on trust.  Either of you can send or print the emails.  However, that was the case if you were just writing each other.  Here, if that does happen, there is no actual proof that you have any connection to the account.  This was one of the ways that David Patraeus allegedly communicated with his mistress during his affair.  Remember to empty the trash.

Check out this article on Rules David Petraeus broke during his affair: CLICK HERE FOR TIPS ON KEEPING YOUR CHEATING A SECRET FROM THE DAILY BEAST

(David Petraeus was the Director of the CIA who was having the affair and then everyone found out – oh..yeah…that guy…)

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #6: Don’t spend time close to home

If you are going to cheat or have an affair, you should never do so in your own backyard.  It is very easy to get caught if you are cheating and meeting your lover close to home.  Remember the episode of Orange is the New Black in which Piper finds out her Dad was cheating?  She is sneaking into a movie with a friend and sees her father leaving the movie theater with a woman who was not her mother.  People notice.  People love to gossip.  Go to towns and places that are not close to your home and/or place of business.  If you are going to parks, go to big parks and try to stay out of big crowds.  It is easy to hide in a crowd, but it is also easy to be spotted and not even know it.  Stay away from places that you would go to with your significant other.  Don’t repeat dates with either one in the same place.  Ever.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #7: Use Cash, Not Credit

If Cash is not always an option, open a new bank account at a bank that is not near your home and use the debit card.  Sign up for paperless statements.  Send the receipts to a secret email account.  Cash however, is king, especially when you are having an affair or cheating.  Using credit cards is the same as leaving a big note in chalk that says, “JILL AND I ATE HERE” and your significant other WILL FIND IT!  If you are getting the cash from bank accounts that your significant other can monitor or has access to, never withdraw large amounts of cash and never withdraw it on the day that you are seeing your affair.  This is important.  ATM records not only show activity, they can show where that activity took place and help your snooping significant other catch you in the act.  Change up your methods.  Keep making small withdrawals on the days prior to your meet ups.  Nothing screams “I AM CHEATING” like an ATM withdrawal at the HOOK UP MOTEL.  Stranger things have appeared on bank and credit card statements.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #8: Never in your own house

 

You know all those shows that are popular right now like CSI and NCIS with all the forensics and stuff?  There is a reason they are popular.  People LOVE to solve mysteries.  People also always unknowingly leave evidence of their presence.  Hair, fluids, gum wrappers, garbage, accessories, glitter, scents, and the like are all items that can raise a significant other’s antenna.  That being the case, NEVER, EVER, have an affair in your own house if you can help it.  You can always help it.  There are multiple reasons that one of the best ways to hide an affair or to hide the fact that you are cheating is to refrain from doing things in your own house.  The first, as mentioned earlier, is clear: EVIDENCE!  The second is a little more emotional – if you get caught, your significant other may see the affair having happened in his/her own house and in his/her own bed as not just being disrespectful, but as an additional crime against him/her.  This can be really bad for your future with your significant other.  He or she may have a hard time staying in the house.  Also, the house then becomes a potential trigger factor for fights and arguments.  It will retain the taint of your affair.  It is easier to get caught where someone knows your will be and where someone can position themselves in a secret location while waiting.  Your house is one of those places, no matter what you think.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #9: Save your affair’s name in your phone as a new gender neutral name

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If you are going to cheat or have an affair and talk to the other person on the phone, at least be smart about it.  Don’t save the person in your phone with their name.  The best way to hide their calls and/or messages in the short term is to give that person a gender neutral name.  If you are a man cheating with a female, give the person a male name.  If you are a woman cheating with a man, give the man a girls name, and so on.  This will at least lesson the initial suspicions should you be getting a call in front of your significant other and not pick up.  When the name flashes on the screen and you choose not the answer your lover’s call, it will not be as suspicious if the person’s name is gender neutral.  There are other methods.  You can save the person with the name of a popular debt collector or utility service, such as a cable company.  This will make it look like multiple calls are just representative of the horrible time you are having with your cable.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #10: Deny to the end

People often confess inadvertently.  Sometimes it is because they feel guilty.  Sometimes it is because they believe someone has information.  Unless you have 100% confirmation that something is the case, do not confess.  Police officers often use tactics to get suspects to give information.  Significant others are no different.  For example, a police officer will ask how many drinks someone has had, and when someone says a number other than zero, it is an admission they have been drinking.  This is an example of a question that gives someone information they are looking for without asking for the information directly.  Beware of this type of question or conversation in particular.

How to Keep Affair Secret Tip #11: If you get caught, you are caught, decide how to proceed but NEVER, EVER, discuss the sordid details

Ok, so this is an extra tip.  However, it really isn’t related to keeping the affair secret.  This involves a situation where you were cheating or having an affair and you get caught.  In such a situation, never discuss the details of the affair.  No matter how forgiving you think that your partner is, never get baited into telling him or her what happened, where it happened, how it happened, etc.  If you are going to move on, the best way to do so is to either end the relationship and move on, or apologize and commit to working towards building a future.  No good will come of living in the past and having your significant other relive what happened and add to it in his/her imagination.  This is probably going to happen anyway.  If you decide to stay, apologize, understand that your significant other will have some issues with what has happened and may need time to heal, but there is no healing in pulling a scab off.  When you give details of love affairs with others, you do just that, you pull scabs off healing wounds.

Good Luck.  You will need it.  You my friend, are a douche!  Enjoy.

Is Kanye West in over his head?

Kim Kardashian is pregnant!  Kanye announced the pregnancy recently during a concert.

What is most disturbing, is that he did not say he was having a baby.  He introduced his “baby mama” during the concert and it was none other than his current and still married girlfriend, Kim Kardashian.

It is not hard to be happy for any happy couple.  However, is this really a happy situation?

Kanye has been known to be a little unstable at times.  It is what it is.  The truth is, poor Kanye is probably in desperate need of love and attention and some stability.

However, it remains to be seen whether being a member of the Kardashian family will be the answer.

One thing is for sure: having a “baby mama” is never positive.  Of course, an engagement is inevitable once Kim is divorced.  Then they will live happily ever after and their story will be told for generations as an amazing ghetto fairy tale!  Maybe.

However, some in the hood are a little skeptical of  Kanye’s new found fairy tale.

Rapper Meek Mill recently said what a lot of people were thinking when he tweeted: “Kanye west officially turned a hoe into a housewife by getting Kim K pregnant.. smh!”

Is that what everyone is thinking?  Most likely, No.  However, many people are watching for a different reason than Kanye is participating: they are worried about Kanye.

Why worry about Kanye?  Well, first off, right now, some of the things that Kanye says and does are arguably a little disrespectful and don’t make Kim look good.  He has recently tweeted some extraordinary things, including writing about having sex with Kim.  “I just fu%*ed Kim so hard.” Yep, he wrote it.

When that happened, Cafe Mom called it “raunchy, tasteless, and disgusting?!”  Miss Info said that he “overshare[d]” his info.

The truth is, after these types of actions, most self respecting women would have been gone.  Yet Kimye is still going strong! Why is Kim still around?

Who Knows!

One thing is for sure.  Kanye is not in the untouchable position of power and authority he thinks he is in.  In fact, arguably, Kanye is in over his head.  Once Kim has that baby, she won’t have to deal with lapses in judgment.  She can leave.  She has shown that she can move on from a break up very well.

In New York, child support for one child starts at 17% of one’s income.  There are all sorts of other expenses that can be added.  So if love is not a good reason for Kim to keep her mouth shut for now, that is.

That which doesn’t kill Kanye will make him stronger.  Sounds good, but Kanye may be in way over his head.  Hopefully parenthood changes Kanye and Kim for the better and this all works out.

If the relationship between Kanye West and Kim Kardashian doesn’t work out, I have this advice:

“Let the Kanye Beware”

I know it is supposed to be let the “buyer” beware.  Kanye is not a buyer of anything, but if Kanye and Kim Break up, Kanye is going to pay.  That is for sure.

. . . .

US Weekly is reporting that Kim Kardashian and Kanye West have just purchased a new home.  The love birds have not just purchased some sort of hut though, they are getting ready for their new baby in style, with the couple having purchased a multi-million dollar mansion. $11 million dollars to be exact.

The couple has been dating and Kanye recently announced during a concert that Kim is pregnant with his first child.  He affectionately referred to Kim as his “baby mama” and she and her mother Kris Jenner were reportedly all files.  Of course, if anyone can affectionately use the term “baby momma” to describe the mother of his child, it is Kanye West.

Both Kanye and Kim have recently been in other high profile relationships.  Chalk this up as an article about moving on from a break-up, Kanye and Kim style!
Check out US Weekly for more information:

Things To Make For Boyfriend: A face just like his real true love: Jessica Alba!

 

That is right.  One girl who had a boyfriend that was in love with Jessica Alba took matters into her own hands to get her man back: she got cosmetic surgery to look just like the actress!  They broke up and she decided to get him back by doing this.  Women in Asian countries do things a little differently!  What was crazier was when she asked her friends: How can I make my boyfriend want me, they suggested she get the surgery!

This video from World Star is CRAZY!




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Check out this funny cartoon of Chris Brown & Rihanna from World Star Hip Hop!

Note: Domestic Violence is serious and should never be tolerated.

 

How do you break up a relationship?

Want to know how to break up a relationship?

Check out the Hilarious speech this guy gives his “girlfriend” about breaking up. This break up video is worth watching!

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Sound by Johnny Rodriguez

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How Can I Get A Girl To Like Me?

Are you asking yourself:

  • How Can I Get A Girl To Like Me?
  • How can I get girls to like me?
  • How can I get a girl to love me?
  • How can I make a girl like me?

This Article focuses on ways to get a woman to like you, ways to get a girl to want you, and well ways to get a woman.  For those of you who want more, we found something that will provide ways to get a girlfriend.

Today’s Reconsider.us master of relationships and dating is a guy named Joshua Pellicer.

“Who is Joshua Pellicer and why can he help me get a girl to like me?”

Good Question!

Here is what Joshua Pellicer has to say about who he is:

Well, I’m a completely normal guy. I didn’t want to believe that I was worthless or that I’d never be good with women. I just wasn’t interested in feeling like a victim for the rest of my life or a guy who got walked all over and overlooked.

The Video on his website tells his story and it is funny.  Very funny.  Sorry Joshua.  At one point, this guy was living with a girl, working 14 hours a day to pay bills and she convinced him to take his things and leave HIS house because her “father” was making a surprise visit.  You have to see the video to hear the more crazy details!

Joshua decided to change his life.  He started to find the secrets to the question: How do I get a girl to Like me?

He became a full-time coach and got pretty popular for a while.  He has been on The Today Show, The NY Press, The NY Times, The NY Daily News, etc, etc…

He was even made fun of on Saturday Night Live! Maxim Radio offered him a show all about meeting women, which he accepted and hosted for several years!

Now he has a system designed to help you get get a girl to like you!

His Video Is Hilarious!

The Claim:

I Will Show You How To Be In The Top 2% Of Men Just By Correcting A Few SIMPLE Mistakes That You Don’t Know You’re Making.

His System:

The system designed to help you get women to like you is set forth in detail on his website.  He has books, videos, forums and all sorts of other dating system support resources.

Click Here For The Secrets To Getting A Girl To Like You!

It also includes 9 Free Bonus Products.  (9 Dating Guides/Dating Reports) including one called “Escaping The Friend Zone” which is an important topic when considering how you can get a girl to like you.

WILL THIS SYSTEM TEACH ME

HOW I CAN GET A GIRL TO LIKE ME?

Seriously, I don’t know you and I don’t know what can teach you anything.  That is the cold hard truth.  For all I know you have no teeth and you drool.  However, if you really are looking to find a way to get girls to like you, then this is as good a start as any.  The way I see it, going out or taking a girl out and having dinner and drinks can cost over $100 in a major city.  This system does not cost $100.  It even has a money back promise that allows you to keep some of the books.  At the very least, there is probably something that you can learn that can help you get women to like you.

At the very least, I do not lie when I say:

His Video Is Hilarious!

Click Here For The Secrets To Getting A Girl To Like You!

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How Do I Get An Ex Back?  CLICK HERE FOR THE ANSWER!

How Do I Get An Ex Back?

 

Are you trying to get an ex back? Whether you are with someone now or you are still heartbroken, you can get your ex back!

 

Get Back With An Ex

There are lots of resources online for people who want to get back with an Ex!  Still thinking about your ex-boyfriend?  Wondering where your ex-girlfriend is right now?  Take a look at some of these interesting systems for getting your ex back!  How can you get your ex back?  Hey, I don’t even know your ex!  How the hell am I supposed to know?  However, since reconsider.us is a resource for getting back with your ex, I have searched far and why for others who might have the answer to how can you get your ex back!

One such person is Michael Fiore!  He doesn’t just want you to get back with your ex, he wants you to:

 TEXT YOUR EX BACK!

When I saw the advertising for the Text Your Ex Back system, I noticed right away that the page had those fancy “as seen on” logos.  The system has been profiled by some big names: The Rachel Ray Show, FOX, WEBMD, NBC, CBS RADIO & YAHOO.  These names made the system no more credible, but they did make me take a closer look.

The Claim:

HOW TO GET YOUR

Ex Girlfriend

or

Ex Boyfriend

Back

Using simple little text messages sent from the cellphone you have in your pocket RIGHT NOW!

CLICK HERE TO SEE THE SYSTEM

Can This Really Help You Get Your Ex Back?

When you are sitting at home sad and alone because you are constantly asking yourself “how do I get an ex back” then anything is a start.  The way I figure it, this system is a starting point towards something.  Maybe it will work, maybe it won’t, but anything is better than not being able to concentrate because you are hoping to get your ex back.  Taking matters into your own hands is always a better path than sitting around waiting for something to happen.

How Does It Work?

This system is set up so that it is marketed to both men who are trying to get an ex girlfriend back and women who are trying to get an ex boyfriend back.  The marketing to each group is completely different and on the first page, you are asked to click a button based on whether you are a man or a woman.

In the pages, each version tells a story specifically targeted to people who are trying to get an ex back.  If you are wondering how to get ex back, then you may want to check out this system.  It can’t hurt to listen to what the How To Text Your Ex back people have to say.

Click Here To LEARN HOW TO GET BACK WITH YOUR EX!

Should I Spend Money Trying to Get My Ex Back?

This is a really good question that only you can answer.  I can say this, dinner at a nice restaurant can cost $50 or more and this system for getting your ex back does not cost $50.  The author states that:

Your order is backed by my 60-Day, No-Questions-Asked, 100% Satisfaction Guarantee.
If you are not 100% satisfied with your purchase, simply contact support@textyourexback.com within sixty days for a full refund.

Software requirements: You will need Adobe’s free Acrobat Reader to read the ebook PDF files. You can download and install Reader by clicking here

It is less than the price of dinner.  The way I see it, if you can get someone you love back, it is worth it.  Otherwise, doing something and having something to read is better than just sitting around.  Go to their site and watch the video.  Decide for yourself whether Text Your Ex Back is indeed the system that you want to use to get your ex back.

Click Here To LEARN HOW TO GET BACK WITH YOUR EX!

Jerry Robinowitz on: The man shortage….

Jerry Robinowitz on Life is a little something we have worked up where Jerry helps me write about new and important issues…..

Jerry Robinowitz on: The man shortage….
This is a good time to be a man in the United States…there are not enough men to go around…for sometime now, we have been aware of the fact that there is a man shortage…not a shortage of good men…but of men in general, men who can read…men with all of their teeth…just plain average I can chew my food without assistance kind of men…but it seems based upon observations of behavior by women and through conversations and generally based upon information and belief that the man shortage is not as well known as it should be, so we will inform you here of this horrible situation.(yeah right…the men in cities with a man shortage think that it is great…)There is a man shortage.don`t believe me? think about this for a second….how many women do you know that end up getting with these ugly, thuggish, “he don’t even brush his teeth or wash” kind of guys? I bet more than you realize!  Often, women will date men who are just beneath them or who they believe have potential?Why?You really think it is because they are humanitarians? I mean come on, I will share a bar of ivory soap, your man does not have to stink.  Actually, what is going on can actually be fully understood when looked at in the context of the man shortage!  You see, no one is picking up sticks and going home to make toothpicks. Why? Because there are toothpicks all over the place and they are readily available. You ain’t home carving toothpicks on Sundays.  Likewise, I ain’t never picked up a straw and some cotton and tried to make a Q-tip. Why? Because there are Q-tips all over the place and you can just go to a 99 cent store and buy a hundred of them.  There is no shortage of these things so we don’t do foolish things to compensate. However, note the following: Have you ever been caught somewhere without a spoon with an individual sized pudding or cup of soup or something like that? It happens every now and again and what happens? You become Maguyver…you start inventing stuff you didn’t even know was possible.  You can be bad at math, but you will find yourself doing calculus to figure out the radius of some silly object u are about to fashion into a spoon so that you can consume your delectable delight. Why? Because there is a spoon shortage or no spoon is readily available. Once I made chop sticks out of two number two pencils to eat cup o noodles in my office at like 3am when I was working on something.  Now back to what I was saying…see…there is a man shortageand women start trying to fashion themselves a Fabio!  It is really sad!  Women start saying to themselves – “he doesn’t really stink” or after looking at his teeth, they start telling themselves “that’s not really yellow.”  But honey, it is yellow and you better be careful because when he drinks water it probably tastes like lemonade!The sad truth is, in many cities in the United States and around the world, there is a serious man shortage!  However, there is hope.  Even though there are not enough men to go around, you can be proactive and make the best of a bad situation.

HOW TO COPE WITH A MAN SHORTAGE:

1) Become informed about the man shortage!  Tell your friends. Discuss the problem. Be proactive!

2) If you find a good man, don’t tell your friends.   If you find a good man, do n0t let him leave! You stalk the crap out of him (unless he`s Jerry Robinowitz or myself of course, then you keep your freaking distance or we will choke you with a chicken bone)!

3) Do not spend your time playing games.  There is a man shortage. Other women know that there is a man shortage.  Remember, one person`s inhibitions are another person`s point of entry!  What does that mean? Let’s look at some examples (some crude examples):

You don’t want to swallow? That is okay.  You don’t have to.  However, don’t expect a man in a city with a man shortage to stick around!  Some chick is going to do it.  That is right, you have inhibitions and won’t do things?   Fine!  Some hoochie is calling his phone or writing him on Twitter or Facebook and telling him that you are a “prude” and that she likes it up the nose.  Seriously.  I know you were not prepared for that, but it is the truth!  Come on, don’t lose your man to some chick who is so loose she takes it up the nose!  In a city with a man shortage, you must do anything you have to in order to Make it happen!  Keep that man!

4) Avoid Guys in Jail!  Remember: you have better things to do on Saturdays than to visit jail! If he is there, hey, I am not hating but, at least wait until he comes home before you start fashioning yourself a Fabio. Live life women!  The truth is, in jail, you won’t know if the love is real, because well, he is a captive.  Now if you were with him before, he stood by you and you love him, that may be different, but most of the time, that is not the case.  Look I totally understand that the loose chick who takes it up the nose is visiting him too but hey, you gotta be strong!

5) You have to do the 50-50 thing!  Don’t ask him to pay for everything. All of those crazy antiquated dating rules go out the window in a city with a man shortage.  They were created in a time where it was a lot harder to meet and date a good woman.  Be a student of history and the economy.  If not, you will always lose to a more on point chick who is not trying to take him for all of his stuff.  Most likely, he has nothing. If he does have lots of money, go to the top of this paragraph and begin to reread. This is important. There are women out there who can cook, clean and hold down nice jobs. They just want company and companionship. They will pay for it. They will kill for it. Men love these women. The hoodrats say they are “wifey material”. The thugs call them “ride or die chicks”.  Sometimes they are “Sugar mommas”. They will be supportive of him, even when he is at his worse.  They will hold him down, feed him and not stress him. They will always win in the end. Even stupid men who go out “play” or “stray” at clubs or in other situations, do so and then return to these women. You will never win out to one if you are not one. I am not saying you are not one of those women but if you are not, please go back and start reading this paragraph again. Look: don’t be a “jigga you dont buy me reeboks no more” kind of woman.

6)  If you have a man, you hold onto him for dear life!  He wants to go to the store? Take your butt with him.   He has to pee? Go with him! Hold it if you have to…at least then you know where it is! I mean come on…there is a chick out there taking it up the nose…don’t take any chances

7) If you meet a woman and she has unusually large and loose nostrils you kick the crap outta her and u let her know to stay away from your man. Don’t have a man? You kick that chick in the nose and tell her that she better not mess your hustle up, because you’re trying to make it happen!  Don’t be shy!

8) Finally, if you have tried everything and nothing works…you didn’t hear this from me but I hear some men like to put it in the nose…..

Until next time….good luck and god speed…this is Jerry Robinowitz and I signing off….

 

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5 First Date Ideas

New to dating?  New to the dating scene?  Maybe you have been dating for a while but have learned the hard way that dating can be expensive!  Looking for inexpensive and/or free dates?  Here are five first date ideas to help you have an amazing time with someone!  Plan the best first date ever!

First Date Idea #1

Go Out to Eat At A Restaurant!

The best first date ideas are often those that are time tested.  This is a classic first date idea.  However, you should choose restaurants that are interesting.  Japanese and Korean BBQ places are often cool because you are cooking with one another and they can be exciting.  Such places force people to communicate and can be used to encourage interaction and teamwork.  Cooking together can be an amazing bonding experience!  This is a way to do that outside of the house!   Avoid places that are not conducive to communication.  Also, avoid discussing exes and prior relationships unless asked, and even then, don’t go into the debbie downer details.

First Date Idea Tip: Use Yelp to lower your dating costs!  Did you know that Yelp has amazing coupons & deals on thousands of restaurants?  Pick the restaurant ahead of time on YELP DEALS & you can save serious money while eating at amazing places.  The Yelp program will allow you to get huge discounts on restaurants and bars if you buy a voucher for use on the SAME DAY.  If you are subtle enough and pull the waiter aside to discuss the details, she will never know!  Programs such as this can allow you to do more with less money and look good while doing it!  CLICK HERE for more information on Yelp Deals

 

First Date Idea #2

This first date idea is more of an idea of what not to do: DON’T GO TO THE MOVIES.

Movies are a HORRIBLE place to have a first date!  How can you talk during a film in a dark room?  Don’t even think about taking a girl you don’t know into a room and fondling her or trying to get to ANY base.  This is douche bag territory and should be avoided at all costs!  Movie theaters are not conducive to communication and that is the goal on the first date: to communicate!  Going to the movies is a really bad first date idea.  AVOID IT AT ALL COSTS, EVEN IF THE OTHER PERSON SUGGESTS IT!

 

First Date Idea #3

 Meet Up For A Drink

“Drink” doesn’t just mean alcohol.  The goal is to talk and communicate and get to know one another.  Alcohol and bars are just one way to do such a thing.  However, some people do not like to go out drinking.  Make sure you ask before you invite.  You can always go to a coffee shop or have hot chocolate somewhere.  Places like DAVE & BUSTERS with Games and other such amusements are also good choices for first dates.

First Date Idea Tip: Like the advice in First Date Idea #1, you can use vouchers from YELP DEALS to get restaurant & bar discounts.  There are often some amazing bars included and the vouchers often cover food & drinks!  These types of discount programs can save you a fortune on drinks and can open up your options dramatically.  Look for rooftop bars & fancy places like speakeasys.  Often, some very trendy places are participating in groupon and Yelp instant deals.  This is especially cool and useful when the date is not planned but rather spontaneous.  Yelp Deals are often discounts on the SAME DAY.  Just check the inventory and see what is available! CLICK HERE for more information on Yelp Deals

 

First Date Idea #4

 Take a Day Trip to a Nearby City!

If your date is spontaneous and likes adventure, suggest taking a bus to a nearby city!  Are you in New York?  If so, consider taking a bus from Chinatown or Midtown to Boston or Philly!  Bolt Bus and Mega Bus are pretty cool options and can be pretty cheap.  The best part: buses are public places, so you don’t have to worry about awkward alone moments!  You can book seats up to the time of departure on many buses! If your city is not ideal for you, another city can be a great place for dating!

First Date Idea Tip: Like the advice in First Date Idea #1, you can use vouchers from YELP DEALS to get restaurant & bar discounts & site seeing in another city.   CLICK HERE for more information on Yelp Deals

 

First Date Idea #5

 Free Dates!  Have a picnic or scavenger hunt around your city!

If your date likes parks or the outdoors, you should consider a picnic.  Picnic’s are cool because you can plan them and have them in some amazing places: Parks, Sidewalks, on Ferries, on mountains after a hike, etc.

First Date Idea Tip: Want to have a more adventurous first date?  Have a scavenger hunt!  Find out what your date is interested in and create a hunt that takes you to get items related to that interest all over the city!  Make maps and checklists!  Take pictures doing silly things.  This can be a great idea if you are new to dating as it is an activity that is not your normal date!

First Date Idea Tip: Put five different date ideas in a bag or cup and have your date pick them one at a time.  If she likes the first one, she might ask to pick again!


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HOW TO CHEAT

Seriously, what is cheating?

Are You A Cheater?   Is it like porn having no definition but you know it when you see it?  Is that ok?

When you are in a relationship, the rules for interacting with people of the opposite sex change.  At least, they are supposed to.  Some people feel that if you have to change your behavior, you are not in a good relationship.  Others feel that there are things you just don’t do if you are in a relationship.

HOW TO CHEAT

What cheating is and what it is not really is not always simple.  That being stated, lets start with what is definitely cheating:

1) Having Sex with Someone who is not your partner when you are in a committed relationship

If you are having sex with someone who is not your girlfriend or boyfriend and you have a girlfriend or boyfriend, you have no business even uttering the question “what is cheating.”  That is because you known darn well what cheating is, it is what you are doing, did, or have been doing.  You seriously need to get it together, because you are a cheater.   Of course you are lying to him or her, it makes sense, because you are probably lying to yourself.

What is Cheating?  Having sex with someone other than your partner, outside of their presence without their permission.

2) Anything that leads to Herpes

A Medical School professor once included the following exam question – “What lasts longer: Ever lasting love or Herpes?”  The correct answer was Herpes.  Unfortunately, it always is.

What is cheating?  Well, if you are in a relationship and you are doing something that can lead you to pick up something that lasts longer than everlasting love, then well, you are cheating.

3) “You can’t catch that from a toilet” -

Getting anything that leads to something you need antibiotics for that you can’t catch from a toilet is cheating from someone other than your significant other is cheating.  Such a situation is not just cheating, it is a serious violation of the trust and safety of your partner.  If you find yourself peeing fire after cheating, go to the doctor.   Do not self treat yourself at the supermarket with cranberry juice or some other silly item of that sort. Cranberry Juice does not cure the fire that lives in water. This is different than the last class of cheating, because ever lasting love lasts longer than these things.  However your relationship may not.

What is Cheating? Doing Something that will cause you to bring the Kooties or Ebola home. Ok fine.  Ebola is not cheating.  You can make an argument.  Kooties is not ok.  It wasn’t ok in elementary school and it isn’t ok now.


4) Engaging in Sexual Activities With a Member of The Same Sex

This is the Down Low Brother/Down Low Sister Rule (A Down Low brother or sister is someone who is living the life of a heterosexual individual and is secretly engaged in A closeted Homosexual Lifestyle).  It applies when you are in a relationship.  If you want to be gay, have a gay old time, but don’t think for a second that it is not cheating if you are doing it with someone of the same sex.  I know, this is obvious.  However, there are sooo many cheaters who use that rationale. For some reason it seems to run deep for politicians & Music Moguls, among others.  If you are leading someone to believe you are one thing and they are making life decisions based on those representations, you are not just cheating, you are maliciously destroying someone else’s life.  You are more likely than not a selfish peace of turd.  Not because you are gay.  There are plenty of amazing gay people.  It is because you are a liar.  There are plenty of gay people that will be there with the family members waiting to throw stones at you.

What is cheating? Having any sort of sex &/or sexual contact with a member of the same sex when you are married or in a relationship.  Then End.  It isn’t just cheating, it can lead to resignation of office too.

What Is Cheating?

Cheating Can Be Subjective!

5) Sexting can be Cheating

Sexting is to Cheating what Marijuana is to Drugs, it is a gateway item.  It isn’t crack.  It is a doorway to other actions and behaviors.  In no other situation do you have to wait for something horrible to happen before you can say it was going to happen.  If someone is about to swing a hammer at your head, you aren’t going to get mad at the person that stops them.  If the police catch a guy going to school with 10 guns and a grenade, they don’t have to wait until he nerd rages and takes out half the school before acting to stop him.  Well, the same applies to texting.  If you are sending suggestive pictures of yourself to someone, your partner does not have to wait until you are going to see the goods in person, or vice versa to declare you a cheater.

What is Cheating: Cheating is when you text a picture of your pinky toe to someone with a foot fetish.

6) Engaging in an Emotional Relationship 

If you are engaged in a serious emotional relationship with a member of the opposite sex that is not related to you, you are a cheater.  Emotional cheating is sometimes worse than physical cheating.  It can be very hurtful and destroy a relationship.  If you see this happening, it is a serious sign of cheating or in some cases, it is the precursor to an affair. Also, as we say often on this site, beware of the platonic friend.  All is fun and games until you remember that most of us spent our lives believing that pluto was a planet, only to find out we had been lied to.  They aren’t the same word, but they are close enough to worry.

What is Cheating: cheating is when you are in an emotional relationship with someone who is not in a committed relationship or a cheater is someone who has not closed the door to an emotional relationship with someone they were previously in a relationship with.

7) Kissing anywhere but the cheek

This can lead to herpes.  But even more, it can lead to fights.  If the kiss is on a sexual organ, forget about it, you are cheating.  Even the cheek may be a fight, but it will probably not lead to someone stabbing you in your sleep.

What is cheating? HOW TO CHEAT: Kissing someone anywhere but the cheek, including the butt.  If you are kissing someone’s butt, it can be cheating.

8) Doing anything that can lead to sexual arousal or stimulus and continuing to do so

Heavy Petting, leaning on someone, grinding on someone at a club or elsewhere, meetups in the supply closet, rubbing legs, light massages, sucking fingers, and things of that sort are all cheating.  Essentially foreplay is cheating.  If it is possible that something is considered foreplay, than you are already about the catch a cheating charge.

What is cheatingHow to Cheat? When Bill used the Cigar on Monica, he may not have thought he was having sex, but he knew he was cheating.  The end.


9) Cyber Sex

This comes up.  If you are chatting and text Sexing, it is cheating.  This also comes up with situations where people cheat by masturbating or engaging in sexual activity on web cameras, webcams and the like.  These are often called webcam or LiveCam situations.  Porns sites have whole areas where women and men do shows for people who send money.  Often a show wont start until a viewer sends a certain amount of money through the site’s commerce system.  The performers will set an amount and when the viewers pay in that amount, the “show” will start.  There is a reason people pay for this type of stuff, it leads to sexual gratification.  Such being the case, if you engage in it on either side, it is a form of cheating.  Another place this comes up is in “Second Life” type scenarios in which people engage in sexual activities using avitars.  Yes, this is a serious circumstance and has come up.  One woman explained the situation away by saying that it was “like a video game” and therapeutic.  Her therapist thought the same thing.  Her husband on the other hand needed some therapy of his own.

What is cheating? HOW TO CHEAT: If someone is having sex with your avitar and you are participating, or if someone is engaged in a sexual performance that you are watching in order to gratify that person or you, you are cheating.  If you are the performer, you are also cheating, unless your significant other knows and you are getting paid, in which case, you are a porn star.  But not a good porn star.  You are the porn star equivalent to one of those guys or girls that thinks he or she is a model because a photographer takes pictures of him or her and he or she has 10 or 15 thousand friends as a result on the internet.  Real models and porn stars get a W-2 or a 1099 at the end of the year.  You are just a cheater.

10) Keeping in Touch with Exes

This is the classic fight waiting to happen and people still do it.  Keeping in touch with an ex is never a good idea.  If you have children, the role of being co-parent with someone else may make this avoidable.  Otherwise, a clean break is what is needed.  Nothing good can come of stale wee wee (boys have one) or vajayjay (girls have one).  You wouldn’t eat or handle a peace of candy that was two years past it’s expiration date.  Why are you talking to a guy or girl who is?

Facebook friending exes after the relationship is over is another way to cheat on Facebook.  If you can talk on facebook, you can cheat on Facebook.  As many a scorned man or woman has discovered, cheating and Facebook often go had and hand.  One Congressman’s wife recently found out that cheating and twitter can go together as well.  Cheating and Facebook run together no differently than putting a drug addict into a house full of drugs, it just is not a good idea to put someone who was in a relationship into a situation where they can relapse.  When your ex is sitting there, a click away, it is easier to maintain contact on your weaker days.  The goes for being contacted.  It is the pathway to cheating.

What is a Cheater? If you keep in touch with your ex, you are probably a cheater or a cheater to be.  How to Cheat: If keep touching your ex, you are cheating.

11) “Liking” some Skanky Guy or Chick’s Pictures on Facebook or Instagram

Ok, maybe it is not cheating, but it is definitely a fight waiting to happen.  You may not be thinking it through fully, but when you like someone’s picture, it is a public act.  Now everyone sees it.  It is not a private action.  You are publically telling everyone that you like that.  ALOUD.  As yourself, if you had an old grandma, and that skanky chick was showing her breasts or bent over a table in front of her, would you go over, smack her butt and say “I like this” in front of your significant other and grandma?  I didn’t think so.  Well, that is what you are doing when you do that on Facebook or Instagram.  You are no longer just watching the train wreck, you are a part of it.

What is cheating? HOW TO CHEAT: Smacking and rubbing some skanky girl or guy’s train wreck on the internet.

by Jerry Robinowitz & I.

Retaliation is by far the sweetest fruit….I mean the world is indeed full of crazy instances in which retaliation creates a greater good. They say one person’s trash is another person’s treasure….isn’t that some really ironic stuff…I mean in relationships isn’t that the case…well in my experience you break up and she finally starts growing hair and gets some teeth whitener but hey, my experience is atypical and I don’t wanna get side tracked…you see, we are here to help you out and today, as per request, we will revisit the subject of retaliation…

Jerry Robinowitz on Retaliation

Also known as Jerry Robinowitz on Dating & Retaliation.  Retaliation is an important tool. It will always help the world to be a better place for you and me. Well, maybe just for me but hey, who the hell do you think you are anyway? So what’s retaliation you ask? Retaliation is what you do when you get someone back for something you done. Contrast this with doing something to random people for no reason cause that’s called “you are a crazy mofo and you had better not drop the soap where they are gonna put you.”  I think you get the idea. So retaliation is purely in response to something. Now don’t feel as if you have to do someone a favor and let them know it’s coming…in fact, you don’t do that…this is important…you must catch that fool by surprise…whatever you do, it must be unique and hit hard…for instance, some wives will during a divorce, sell a $50,000 car for $50 to a stranger just so the husband gets nothing because after all, that’s the car he used to literally ride that little deep throating flusie in…that hurts…see, once, a long long time ago someone got me so angry that I took one of those little bouillon cubes, you know the little cubes you dissolve in water and in makes it chicken soup…well I took the cube and I put it in her shower-head…that way when she came in the morning to take her shower and wash her hair, the hot water would mix with the bouillon soup and create a chicken soup shower….now you do that to someone and they will stink like chicken soup for some time….good lord if they are late for work that morning…..”hey what’s that smell”……but you get the idea…you have to come hard…inspire hatred..

The Revenge List: Who To Cheat With If You Want To Get Back At A Cheater!

Background noted, if your mate cheats on you and you want revenge you may wish to cheat as well…if so here are the people you should sleep with if you are a man…the second most powerful retaliatory act is to sleep with her mother…the biggest missile would be sleep with her father, but I don’t recommend that..its crazy…and I’m personally not gay but if you are a homo thug, you go keep it in the family….now the third biggest hit would be siblings, brothers and sisters, followed by cousins and relatives. If you have no access or chance at one of the above, try people they claim to be related to but aren’t really..like fake cousins…none of those, find good friends, and if you are at a loss, then find an enemy…if all else fails, find out where she went to elementary school and go have sex with the girl that used to eat her boogers, or better yet, the infamous glue sniffer…


 

To recap, if you want to get back at a cheater by cheating, cheat with the following in the following order:

 

Who To Cheat With:

  1. Mother (if you are a woman) Father (if you are a man)
  2. Father (if you are a woman) Mother (if you are a man)
  3. Siblings: Brothers and Sisters
  4. Cousins and Relatives
  5. Fake Cousins & Siblings (People they grew up close to)
  6. Good Friends
  7. Enemies and Distant Friends
  8. People They think are lower than them: Glue sniffers, train wrecks, girls with yellow teeth, girls with horrible stretch marks that show them often, girls with too much make up, girls with 80’s hair, really really short guys, guys with shirtless pictures on the internet, juice heads who have no clue, spanish & black guys (if you are white, cause that will make a white man really mad..)…etc…not in that order…

In any event, you get them back! But if you’re really an adult, you will forgive, forget and when you see her again, you say, yes, that is a great idea, I would like fries with that! And then you take your french fries and you leave!  After all, we all know that cheating exes end up working at a fast food restaurant or with some other horrible situation in the years that follow our relationships…

Disclaimer: This post uses terms like “homo thug” and does so lovingly.  This site and this post are in no way intended to in anyway disrespect, vex, or alarm homosexuals.  In fact, we are very happy to have all people as readers of our site.   Anyone that thinks the term “homo thug” is derogatory has never been punched in the face by a thugged out homosexual.  If I was in a fight, I should only be so lucky if a thugged out homosexual were to punch someone in the face for me.  You should be so lucky as well.  That is all I have to say about that…

WHAT IS A MILF?

I know I have your attention. Recently, with the explosion of women who have children looking for men online and in online dating, I have noticed a proliferation in screen names and log in IDs with word combinations containing the acronym MILF. MILF646. MILF4U. MILF&COOKIES. You know what I mean. But have you ever seen some of these people? You look at their profiles and it’s a woman with Huge breasts, rolls on her sides, and six kids flanking her. If she’s black, three are asian. It is really seriously wrong.

So let me set the record straight, just so that you know, and maybe you can warn your friends. YOU CAN NOT JUST GO CALL YOURSELF A MILF. Its not just wrong, its wrong. Why you ask? Because you have no idea what MILF MEANS.

For instance, you cant say as a woman, “I am 5’5” and have 3 children. Don’t worry, I am a MILF”. You can’t just call yourself a MILF. Why? Because MILF stands for Mother I’d Love to F#%k. That’s right. I said it. It stands for Mother I’d Love to F#%k. So how can you say that? You don’t know me. And even if you do, you don’t know that I’d Love to F#%k you. MILF is a special designation. If comes from the backrooms of adolescent males who were just discovering sex and lust and noticed why the men in the neighborhood all turned their heads when a certain friends mother walked by. It is one of those American Pie, Y tu mama tambien type designations (both are references to movies in which the MILF is explored). Its not just an acronym, it’s a freakin adventure and daydream unto itself. Reality can’t possibly bring one to the places the phrase MILF can. Its just impossible. It’s the height of the wet dream. It is the dream. It’s not MOTHER I’D LIKE TO F#%K. Its not pretty older woman. It is Mother I’d Love To F#%k. You can’t just call yourself that. You have to be a mother and I have to want to do animalistic things to you for you to get such a designation. It’s the difference between liking something and coveting it to the point that god is going to send you to hell because it is so serious.

Urbandictionary.com, a random site, defines MILF as:

milf
6710 up, 898 down

“Mother I’d Like (to) F#%k”
mothers, whether married, separated or divorced, that a male individual sees as physical attractive enough to want to have sexual intercourse with them. Just cuz their moms doesn’t mean that they don’t need a spark in their love life. If they’ve ever breastfed,they have really responsive nipples and a core of erectile tissue in their breasts. The ones in good shape have worked at regaining control over their vaginas (Kegel exercises).  MILFs are usually real careful about birth control, they know accidents happen but they take responsible steps. They want to fuck with abandon, with no romantic complications for their under-19 family.
A MILF is any mother that is sexually desirable.

They have it almost right…but as you can see…the term inspires pure craziness. However, either way you put it, it’s a label that only the beholder can really accurately convey. However, in today’s online booty call age, it is slowly becoming less accurate to describe an amazingly sexy woman and more a signal that some nasty hoodrat wants you to go to her house and have sex with her while her children lie in the same bed. It has to stop.

So don’t call yourself a MILF…

Cause you can’t be a MILF unless the person you are speaking to says so!

Check out this related post: Urban Relationship Advice: The Bottom Bit#$H

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Tired of the same old dating sites and social networking sites?  Keep seeing the same old tired people on those social networking sites?  You don’t have to get rid of your facebook friends..

Looking for some new friends?  Someone to talk to?  A new companion?  A new enemy?  If so, check out http://www.meetme.com/ which seems to look and function a lot like Myspace.com which we loved.  People loved myspace, they just don’t want to be caught on myspace because it is no longer the cool go to site.  You can sign up and set up a profile for free using your facebook information.

Check out Meetme.com here:

Meet Me: http://www.meetme.com/

Check out our previous post: 3 Free Dating Sites to Help You Get Over A Breakup

 

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Chris Rock and Nia Long once went on a date!  In this clip, Chris Rock and Nia Long tell Wendy Williams what happened!

After being fixed up, Chris Rock and Nia Long went out and hung out.  Chris Rock asked Nia Long if she was dating anyone or in a relationship.  Her shocking answer was enough to make Chris Rock decide to give her a WRONG NUMBER!  Imagine Nia Long’s suprise when she made that call and found out that she was REJECTED by Chris Rock.

That is how you get rid of a bad date! Go Chris Rock!

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Caution: STRONG LANGUAGE IS USED IN THIS VIDEO.

People that live in the hood have a slang all their own.  However, you don’t have to live in some urban neighborhood to understand important relationship advice and dating theory.  In this video, via You Tube, Kain Carter explains the concept of the Bottom Bit#Sh.

While we don’t particularly agree with his definition, it is a funny video worthy of at least one look.  This video could help you get some insight into the brain of the dating male.

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Oprah interviews Kim Kardashian in this video from World Star Hip Hop.  Kim discusses her relationship with Kanye.  Oprah bluntly asks Kim if Kanye is a fairy tale.

Kim reveals that she talks to Kanye everyday, that they have known each other for years, and says that she and Kanye are not a publicity stunt.  She says that they are not looking to move in together.  Kim bought Kanye a CAR for his birthday, a Lamborghini! She says despite her sex tape and partying, she goes to church every Sunday and that Kanye and her share a unique bond and experience, including, the loss of a parent.

Oprah asks if Kanye is someone who she can marry and Kim answers: “First I have to get divorced…”

 

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In this video, a girl is beating up her boyfriend on the train.  The guy shows amazing restraint as she hits him over and over and over again.  This cheater is being dealt with baby momma drama style.  Other passengers on the train film the incident and eventually the conductor calls the Police.  When the Police arrive, the woman turns her anger towards them and pin the woman down as she resists arrest.  She even spits on them.  The man, who was beat, kicked and disrespected, is saved by the Police. Via World Star Hip Hop.

Moral: Don’t catch a case because of a cheater, it is just not worth it.

 

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Sometimes you just can’t make up what is happening when people cheat.  You can think that you know someone, but the truth is, they can be into all sorts of crazy freaky stuff.  To be sure, you just never really know who someone is!

In this crazy episode of Cheaters, which is brought to you via World Star Hip Hop, some poor unfortunate herb (that is a guy who just got a bad bounce in this case) comes home to his house to find his girlfriend cheating.  He knew she was probably cheating..but what he found was sure to shock and awe.  We still don’t know exactly what we saw, but it was cheating, it was strange and it was definitely the closest thing to carnival or circus sex we have ever seen!  Masks and construction tape, make up and vests, creepy carnival music and a role playing girlfriend who was doing the nasty with some sort of Halloween monster…you just have to see for yourself..

Title this one: “I am gonna have to catch a case…”


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